Could you be with someone that had an Asian fetish, or any type of fetish for that matter?

I'm pretty sure my boyfriend has an Asian fetsh. Whenever we go to Asian buffets, he stares at all the female Asian workers. Whenever we are in public and he Sees an Asian girl, he stares at them hardcore. He stares at every attractive woman he sees, but Asian women are the worst.

I remember one time when we were at the store, he saw this cute little Asian woman, and he went down every aisle she went down just so he could stare at her as much as possible, while him and me were hand in hand! And he thought I wouldn't notice, but I knew exactly what he was doing. He denied it though and said I was crazy.

And also, I'm not supposed to know this, but I know he watches Asian porn because I have seen it on his phone before he got to deleting his browsing history.

All of this makes me so sick to my stomach and disgusted. I never get turned on when he wants to have sex because I feel so sick to my stomach all the time. I feel like I can never compete with an asian girl, in his mind.


What woud you do if you were in this situation? Could you be with someone like this?