I recently discovered a local mommy & me group on Facebook. The group is basically a play date group for kids. The mommies also have a once a month mom day where the moms meet up, have dinner and go have fun for a few hours. This group is not all about play dates. They have clothing swaps, toy swaps and so much more. I decided to join my three kids and I. We will have our first meeting next week. Groups like this is a great example of getting what you need all while giving what you don't need to others that do need it.