I'm on my last baby and I really want his first birthday to be special, but I don't want to overdue it. I thought Instead of having a party, we'd hire a photographer to do a cake smash photo shoot and call it a day. With my first son we went all out- a big cake, a fantasy venue, custom clothing. It was huge and expensive and unnecessary. The camera with the photos ended up getting stolen. I feel it was money wasted. I'm thinking this time we'll just take pictures, eat some cake and call it a day. Thoughts?