I have a 17-year-old son, a junior in high school, and of course, everything he wants for Christmas is expensive. Even video games are expensive! This is my question. If you have teens, this could apply to boys or girls I''m sure, how do you handle the Christmas thing when it comes to the amount you spend? We usually get him one "big ticket" item and then smaller ticket items, which he will have on his list. This year all he has on his list is big ticket items. He knows he's not going to get them all, but how do I decide what is best. I have asked him which he would rather have and he laughs and says all. I know what he "needs" the most, but I really want him to be happy with what he gets. Any ideas on how I should handle this? Thanks.