That old thing is my ex-fiancee. We were together for many years and things were pretty tumultuous. To a degree, I accepted this until I got sick and had to move back home. He kept in touch with well wishes but I was determined to move on with school and getting my life back on track. Well, I'm getting my degree in a few weeks and he not only wishes me well but wants to be a part of my future. At first I laughed until I wet my pants but a talk we had said it was no joke on his part. As I'm getting older, I fear dying alone but at the same time, I don't want to age before my time dealing with drama. If I were to go into great detail, I would be writing all day about things I had to deal with in 10+ years. However, I debating between saying "No thanks" and just taking it slow. Thoughts?