Excuse me? I didn't call her a bad mother specifically, I spoke of parents in general and she took it upon herself as an insult. She made it seem like she was being insulted as she proceeded to insult all of the parents that she looks down on and how they don't meet her standards. You really might need to step aside and check yourself.
You just need to find the one with the proper age group. When you do this, you do not have any problems with them being hurt. If they are younger, you may want to look at the blow up bounce houses.